My transgender son has been on hormone treatment for over a year. This week he had his first operation. His hysterectomy.
We had to get up at 3am, in order to be at the hospital for 6.00am. I called the hospital when we were told to, he was still in recovery. I was told to just keep calling. I left it for an hour and a half, called again and was told it had gone great and we could visit.
When we arrived at his ward, he was laid in bed, asking where we had been. He looked pale, very pale.
His first request, he wanted McDonalds. Typical of my son. As the visit progressed and the pain killer wore off, he became very emotional, crying partly because of the pain, but partly because apparently men don’t cry. REAL MEN DO CRY it shows they care. An my son is very caring.
I knew it was going to be hard seeing my baby in pain. But it was far worse than I had imagined. Hearing my son repeatedly apologizing for crying, for causing all this trouble because he is transgender broke my heart.
I KNOW being any member of the LGBTQ community is not a choice, after seeing my son this day made me realize that ANYONE who thinks its a choice needs to educate themselves. NO-ONE chooses to put themselves through these surgeries, let alone the bullying they suffer.
We have young adults stepping in front of trains because its easier than going to school. As Humans we have reached
the ultimate low and we need to change. We need to respect other people and instead of being abusive, physically or emotionally, we should be grateful we don’t have to go through so much to be who we are.
My son when he was younger.